fix(sheets): icons text and bg not update current color

[kenny-not-dead]

close #6676

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[jikkai]

Thanks for the fix. I opened a new PR to replace this one.

The issue is not specific to sheet menu ids, so adding a menuItem.id.startsWith('sheet') guard in the generic ribbon hook is a bit too narrow. The new PR fixes the shared BUTTON_SELECTOR value flow instead, so the toolbar icon uses the latest emitted value while still preserving selection-derived state.