chore: update eslint plugin react hooks

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Pointed out here #10150 (comment)

Which does fail in https://playground.react.dev/#N4Igzg9grgTgxgUxALhAgHgBwjALgAgBMEAzAQygBsCSoA7OXASwjvwFkBPAQU0wAoAlPmAAdNvkoICAW04AlUvgC8+KGASKS-OlUqCA3OPyTp+AG5lKUBCrUb2CGRH5CVAPhH5jJ-DGmwbHJaAHRwsP50uEYSAL4ANPgA2gC6hj5SBJHEMAAqTDK2qsGkYREIUTEm-riB+AA8hEzm7gASCJSUEPgA6jiUhCKW1gixItkIeQWj9QD0TS0xseIg8SBwrCRMAOYoIGISs7MbMphMlGTMrOwQxMjeIFaUoiDisavgABYQAO4AklFJnQrGAUORKBpYkA

However, it's not currently failing in this PR... so I'm not sure if something else is causing it to bail or we need to update something else. But if we try to use the compiler, it'll error on that line.

I haven't started fixing any of the errors yet.

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